Do parents suck? They do.

 Honestly, if your parents are the best, congrats. And clearly, this isn't the post for you.



I think people misunderstand when we bash our parents. I mean, I'm not a perfect human being and I definitely suck in some ways. I can acknowledge that, so why can't I point out the same in the people responsible for my existence?

I previously titled this rant parents suck but do they really suck? I snap and get cranky at the slightest inconvenience and I haven't even started taking on any major responsibilities. Imagine just trying to survive, dealing with family drama bills, etc, and having to cater to a child too? I'm not even trying to justify anything but writing it down now, I'm not even surprised at the transfer of aggression.

Maybe when some of our parents look at us, they see mistakes and regret. Sucks to hear but meh. Recent dealings have also taught me that majority of parents are just overgrown babies. Poor communication and unappreciation are huge problems for these people and only god knows for them.

God knows I'm tired of dealing with their bs and I don't even have the patience to teach new tricks to old dogs. I understand where they're coming from ( maybe ), but it doesn't mean I want to deal with it. In fact, I don't want to deal with it because it's emotionally stressful and I hate any form of stress.

Some parents can't stand it when you're independent in some ways, usually financially, so they take it out on you in other ways. I think I'm at the point where I don't even have the strength to argue or fight. I'm just so tired. 

It's really unfair that we have to be their proverbial punching bag. It's unfair that I have to bear the brunt of your anger because you failed in some aspects of your life. Or you think because I'm the daughter I have to do certain things? lewl. I always believe in giving what I receive and I don't think you should be an exception because you pushed me out. 

If you're not nice to me, I'll definitely not be nice to you. If you don't check up on me, I also won't the same. This may be an immature way to look at things, but at this moment, I really don't care. My mindset may change in the future, but this is my current principle.


Parents suck and when they suck, they really suck.

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